Fix BS_QUEUE death (merge from main #14081)

[alexvru]

Changelog entry

Fix BS_QUEUE death

Changelog category

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Additional information

When BS_QUEUE got terminated before this fix, it did not finish any inflight requests. This would lead to VDisk window leak.

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🔴 2025-01-31 23:19:27 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below.

Test history | Test log

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
10614	10497	0	40	32	45

🟢 2025-01-31 23:20:22 UTC ydbd size 5.6 GiB changed* by +4.1 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stable-24-3: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-24-3: c1b8015	merge: 5818c92	diff	diff %
ydbd size	6 002 340 216 Bytes	6 002 344 456 Bytes	+4.1 KiB	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	1 504 183 200 Bytes	1 504 184 032 Bytes	+832 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

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⚪ 2025-01-31 20:46:52 UTC Pre-commit check for 5818c92 has started.
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🟢 2025-01-31 21:29:22 UTC Build successful.
⚪ 2025-01-31 21:29:40 UTC Tests are running...
🔴 2025-01-31 22:58:21 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below.

Test history | Test log

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
14937	13582	0	15	1302	38

🟢 2025-01-31 22:59:08 UTC ydbd size 8.3 GiB changed* by +3.5 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stable-24-3: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-24-3: c1b8015	merge: 5818c92	diff	diff %
ydbd size	8 873 984 248 Bytes	8 873 987 792 Bytes	+3.5 KiB	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	484 284 840 Bytes	484 285 096 Bytes	+256 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}