Support heartbeat timeout & retry_times configuration (StarRocks#4175)

During the high overload, the heartbeat timeout will occur frequently and the load will be fail . This pull request will add retrying strategy to handling the heartbeat timeout.
The configuration is heartbeat_retry_times and the default value is 3, heartbeat_timeout_second default value is 5

Fix date_format %w bug2 (StarRocks#4171)

Fix low cardinality opmize crash in pipeline when enable cache table … (

StarRocks#3915)


when we rewrite decoded slot descriptor, we add the new slot descritpor
to runtime_state.object_pool. but this slot descriptor may be accessed
in other thread. which will cause a use-after-free

Fix join reorder projection not deal with columnOperator to columnOpe…

…rator map (StarRocks#4056)

fix java JAR path in makefile (StarRocks#3600)

Optimize CatalogRecycleBin query table with same name (StarRocks#3603)

Reconstruct CatalogRecycleBin into triple DbId, TableId, Info.
Accelerates the query to adapt to a large number of new and deleted many many of tables scenarios.

Fix: set scan_ranges after preparing node (StarRocks#3738) (StarRocks…

…#3746)

fix default delimiter for textfile (StarRocks#3640) (StarRocks#3673)

fix the bug of exec_mem_limit not take effect in routine load (StarRo…

…cks#3666)

Union support setSqlLimit