enhance: [2.4] Invalidate collection cache when release collection (#37577)

[congqixia]

Cherry-pick from master
pr: #37577
Related to #37395

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 83.72%. Comparing base (3456e24) to head (c86ba46).
Report is 4 commits behind head on 2.4.

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##              2.4   #37628       +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   72.24%   83.72%   +11.48%     
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  Files        1069      801      -268     
  Lines      166736   140288    -26448     
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- Hits       120451   117451     -3000     
+ Misses      41880    18442    -23438     
+ Partials     4405     4395       -10     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
internal/proxy/impl.go	85.56% <100.00%> (ø)
internal/querycoordv2/job/job_release.go	82.40% <100.00%> (+3.15%)	⬆️
internal/querycoordv2/services.go	85.29% <100.00%> (+0.03%)	⬆️

... and 305 files with indirect coverage changes

[weiliu1031]

/lgtm