Specify the adapter used when creating a GPU device

[slouken]

When doing cross-API work, specifically integrating video decoding, it's important that the GPU device and the video decoder are on the same video adapter. We should have a way of specifying the adapter LUID to use and indicating what adapter was used in device creation. It seems like a property is the best way to go here, and I can wire this up if this is the direction we want to go.

Related context:
#14157

@flibitijibibo, @thatcosmonaut, @TheSpydog, any thoughts?