Improve segment build auto retry logics

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ingestion
Followup on #15234
There could be some other similar "overflow" issues with different types of exceptions, add them to auto retry
(Sample error traceback)

java.nio.BufferOverflowException: null at java.base/java.nio.ByteBuffer.put(ByteBuffer.java:1210) at
org.apache.pinot.segment.local.io.util.VarLengthValueWriter.add(VarLengthValueWriter.java:119) at
org.apache.pinot.segment.local.segment.creator.impl.inv.json.OffHeapJsonIndexCreator.seal(OffHeapJsonIndexCreator.java:149) at
org.apache.pinot.segment.local.segment.creator.impl.SegmentColumnarIndexCreator.seal(SegmentColumnarIndexCreator.java:470) at
org.apache.pinot.segment.local.segment.creator.impl.SegmentIndexCreationDriverImpl.handlePostCreation(SegmentIndexCreationDriverImpl.java:372) at org.apache.pinot.segment.local.segment.creator.impl.SegmentIndexCreationDriverImpl.buildByColumn(SegmentIndexCreationDriverImpl.java:344) at org.apache.pinot.segment.local.realtime.converter.RealtimeSegmentConverter.build(RealtimeSegmentConverter.java:115) at org.apache.pinot.core.data.manager.realtime.RealtimeSegmentDataManager.buildSegmentInternal(RealtimeSegmentDataManager.java:1086) at org.apache.pinot.core.data.manager.realtime.RealtimeSegmentDataManager.buildSegmentForCommit(RealtimeSegmentDataManager.java:947) at org.apache.pinot.core.data.manager.realtime.RealtimeSegmentDataManager$PartitionConsumer.run(RealtimeSegmentDataManager.java:850) at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:1583)

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✅ Project coverage is 63.34%. Comparing base (76f2b7f) to head (ed5f794).

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