[MBUILDCACHE-123] do not set projectExecutions if cacheState is disabled

[zrlw]

Revised content:

1. modified MojoParametersListener#beforeMojoExecution: got cacheState and don't allocate projectExecutions memory if cacheState is disabled.
2. added sisu-maven-plugin to pom.xml for generating META-INF/sisu/javax.inject.Named which should be included in the maven extension jar.

Cause:
if set maven-build-cache-extension at .mvn/extensions.xml, MojoParametersListener will always allocate memory for saving projectExecutions even disable the cache by -Dmaven.build.cache.enabled=false

this pr is related to
https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/MBUILDCACHE-123 and apache/dubbo#15328

[zrlw]

by the way, i doubt why sisu-maven-plugin is not included in pom.xml?
i added sisu-maven-plugin to my pom.xml and run mvn clean sisu:main-index install to generate file META-INF/sisu/javax.inject.Named which should be included in maven-build-cache-extension jar.

      <plugin>
        <groupId>org.eclipse.sisu</groupId>
        <artifactId>sisu-maven-plugin</artifactId>
        <executions>
          <execution>
            <id>generate-index</id>
            <goals>
              <goal>main-index</goal>
            </goals>
          </execution>
        </executions>
      </plugin>

[zrlw]

the pr needs to be optimized since it has duplicated codes and did useless work when the condition source == Source.LIFECYCLE && !forkedExecution is false.
see details at #209

[jira-importer]

Resolve #288

[jira-importer]

Resolve #288