optimize: update README.md(update mailing list and repository urls)

README.md

@@ -131,21 +131,23 @@ Contributors are welcomed to join the Seata project. Please check [CONTRIBUTING]
 ## Contact
 
 * Mailing list: 
-  * dev-seata@googlegroups.com , for dev/user discussion. [subscribe](mailto:dev-seata+subscribe@googlegroups.com), [unsubscribe](mailto:dev-seata+unsubscribe@googlegroups.com), [archive](https://groups.google.com/forum/#!forum/dev-seata)
+  * dev@seata.apache.org , for dev/user discussion. [subscribe](mailto:dev-subscribe@seata.apache.org), [unsubscribe](mailto:dev-unsubscribe@seata.apache.org), [archive](https://lists.apache.org/list.html?dev@seata.apache.org)
 * Online chat: 
 
 <img src="https://img.alicdn.com/imgextra/i2/O1CN01nQG77T1VNcpPDOMVi_!!6000000002641-0-tps-1566-424.jpg"  height="200" width="630">
 
 
 ## Seata ecosystem
 
-* [Seata Website](https://github.com/seata/seata.github.io) - Seata official website
+* [Seata Website](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata.github.io) - Seata official website
 * [Seata Ecosystem Entry](https://github.com/seata) - A GitHub group `seata` to gather all Seata relevant projects
-* [Seata GoLang](https://github.com/opentrx/seata-golang) - Seata GoLang client and server
-* [Seata Samples](https://github.com/seata/seata-samples) - Samples for Seata
-* [Seata Docker](https://github.com/seata/seata-docker) - Seata integration with docker
-* [Seata K8s](https://github.com/seata/seata-k8s) - Seata integration with k8s
-* [Awesome Seata](https://github.com/seata/awesome-seata) - Seata's slides and video address in meetup
+* [Seata GoLang](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata-go) - Seata GoLang client and server
+* [Seata Samples](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata-samples) - Samples for Seata
+* [Seata GoLang Simples](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata-go-samples) - Samples for Seata GoLang
+* [Seata Docker](https://github.com/seata/fescar-docker) - Seata integration with docker
+* [Seata K8s](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata-k8s) - Seata integration with k8s
+* [Seata CLI](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata-ctl) - CLI tool for Seata
+* [Awesome Seata](https://github.com/seata/awesome-fescar) - Seata's slides and video address in meetup
 
 ## Contributors
 

changes/en-us/2.x.md

@@ -33,6 +33,7 @@ Add changes here for all PR submitted to the 2.x branch.
 - [[#6179](https://github.com/seata/seata/pull/6179)] remove @author info
 - [[#6176](https://github.com/seata/seata/pull/6176)] update source header
 - [[#6178](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata/pull/6178)] update the header of Apache License
+- [[#6186](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata/pull/6186)] update README.md(update mailing list and repository urls)
 - [[#6184](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata/pull/6184)] update NOTICE file
 
 ### security:

changes/zh-cn/2.x.md

@@ -32,6 +32,7 @@
 - [[#6179](https://github.com/seata/seata/pull/6179)] 移除 @author 信息
 - [[#6176](https://github.com/seata/seata/pull/6176)] 更新源文件header信息
 - [[#6178](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata/pull/6178)] 更新Apache License头信息
+- [[#6186](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata/pull/6186)] 更新README.md（更新邮件列表和一些生态访问链接）
 - [[#6184](https://github.com/apache/incubator-seata/pull/6184)] 更新NOTICE文件
 
 ### security: