Avoid persistent and in-memory tx status getting out-of-sync

[snaury]

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Description for reviewers

It was discovered that in certain situation tx status parts and in-memory state may diverge, allowing transaction ids to be reused, which would unexpectedly become committed or removed after a restart. Make sure in-memory state doesn't diverge from the state that could be restored from disk on restart.

Fixes KIKIMR-22538.

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⚪ 2025-02-19 11:49:28 UTC Pre-commit check linux-x86_64-release-asan for 7b64127 has started.
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🟡 2025-02-19 13:15:04 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. This fail is not in blocking policy yet Going to retry failed tests...

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TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
13570	13494	0	21	16	39

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Test history | Ya make output | Test bloat | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
116 (only retried tests)	79	0	0	5	32

🟢 2025-02-19 13:35:47 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2025-02-19 13:36:14 UTC ydbd size 3.6 GiB changed* by +52.3 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs main: OK

ydbd size dash	main: 2872539	merge: 7b64127	diff	diff %
ydbd size	3 893 387 816 Bytes	3 893 441 392 Bytes	+52.3 KiB	+0.001%
ydbd stripped size	1 363 137 728 Bytes	1 363 160 928 Bytes	+22.7 KiB	+0.002%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

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⚪ 2025-02-19 11:55:03 UTC Pre-commit check linux-x86_64-relwithdebinfo for 7b64127 has started.
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🟡 2025-02-19 13:21:42 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. Going to retry failed tests...

Test history | Ya make output | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
27768	25172	0	1	2462	133

⚪ 2025-02-19 13:24:18 UTC ya make is running... (failed tests rerun, try 2)
🟢 2025-02-19 13:52:10 UTC Tests successful.

Test history | Ya make output | Test bloat | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
205 (only retried tests)	76	0	0	2	127

🟢 2025-02-19 13:52:18 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2025-02-19 13:52:39 UTC ydbd size 2.1 GiB changed* by +59.9 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs main: OK

ydbd size dash	main: 2872539	merge: 7b64127	diff	diff %
ydbd size	2 238 223 232 Bytes	2 238 284 536 Bytes	+59.9 KiB	+0.003%
ydbd stripped size	474 291 928 Bytes	474 312 600 Bytes	+20.2 KiB	+0.004%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}