add node name filter, improve filter behavior

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Changelog entry

add node name filter, improve filter behavior
closes #10554

Changelog category

• New feature
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[github-actions]

⚪ 2024-10-18 06:41:02 UTC Pre-commit check linux-x86_64-release-asan for a2285ea has started.
⚪ 2024-10-18 06:41:13 UTC Artifacts will be uploaded here
⚪ 2024-10-18 06:44:10 UTC ya make is running...
🟡 2024-10-18 08:27:54 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. This fail is not in blocking policy yet

Test history | Ya make output | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
10286	9764	0	132	345	45

🟢 2024-10-18 08:28:48 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2024-10-18 08:29:23 UTC ydbd size 5.7 GiB changed* by +2.2 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs main: OK

ydbd size dash	main: 707927e	merge: a2285ea	diff	diff %
ydbd size	6 103 273 664 Bytes	6 103 275 904 Bytes	+2.2 KiB	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	1 521 583 792 Bytes	1 521 584 560 Bytes	+768 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

[github-actions]

⚪ 2024-10-18 06:42:30 UTC Pre-commit check linux-x86_64-relwithdebinfo for a2285ea has started.
⚪ 2024-10-18 06:42:41 UTC Artifacts will be uploaded here
⚪ 2024-10-18 06:45:40 UTC ya make is running...
🟡 2024-10-18 07:37:24 UTC Some tests failed, follow the links below. Going to retry failed tests...

Test history | Ya make output | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
15020	13537	0	3	1384	96

⚪ 2024-10-18 07:38:39 UTC ya make is running... (failed tests rerun, try 2)
🟢 2024-10-18 07:49:58 UTC Tests successful.

Test history | Ya make output | Test bloat | Test bloat

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
99 (only retried tests)	8	0	0	0	91

🟢 2024-10-18 07:50:05 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2024-10-18 07:50:26 UTC ydbd size 2.8 GiB changed* by +66.0 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs main: OK

ydbd size dash	main: d671859	merge: a2285ea	diff	diff %
ydbd size	3 012 358 256 Bytes	3 012 425 792 Bytes	+66.0 KiB	+0.002%
ydbd stripped size	477 638 200 Bytes	477 647 736 Bytes	+9.3 KiB	+0.002%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}