feat: add an option to not start a websocket server

[sheremet-va]

Description

This PR adds an option server.ws that can only be equal to false. I wasn't sure if I should change server.hmr type (make it nullable like the watcher?), so I added a new one. If we want to use server.hmr, we would need to replace all server.hmr === false.

Also, do we want to document this option?

Closes #14328

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• Bug fix
• New Feature
• Documentation update
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[bluwy]

@sheremet-va Is this something you'd like to get out soon? I think we can merge this in a patch since it's not a big change, otherwise if it's not urgent we can queue this for the next minor.

[sheremet-va]

@sheremet-va Is this something you'd like to get out soon? I think we can merge this in a patch since it's not a big change, otherwise if it's not urgent we can queue this for the next minor.

I am fine with it being in a minor. I am using a workaround by assigning a dummy hmr.server for now.