fix(services): setup services before peerinfo is updated

[diegomrsantos]

• Setup services before peerinfo is updated - this allows services to set address mappers.
• Fix HP interop tests - improve condition related to relay addr being published.
• Disable wildcard resolver in testautonatservice and test testautorelay.

[kaiserd]

Thank you.
Why do disable testautonatservice and test testautorelay fail with the wildcard resolver being active?

[diegomrsantos]

Thank you. Why do disable testautonatservice and test testautorelay fail with the wildcard resolver being active?

Cause now peerInfo.addrs is populated with the resolved addresses right after the switch is started and the tests are probably not expecting that.

[kaiserd]

Let's add an issue capturing the task of adjusting these tests so that we can add them back in.
For now, this PR is OK.