Replace `minimist` with `parseArgs` from `node:util`

[ChristianMurphy]

Initial checklist

• I read the support docs
• I read the contributing guide
• I agree to follow the code of conduct
• I searched issues and couldn’t find anything (or linked relevant results below)

Problem

minimist is an additional dependency which needs to be downloaded.

Solution

Node now provides parseArgs as part of node:util, with a similar functionality and API.
It has been made available as far back as Node 16 https://nodejs.org/dist/latest-v16.x/docs/api/util.html#util_util_parseargs_config

Alternatives

continue using a user land argument parser.

[github-actions]

Hi team! I don’t know what’s up as there’s no phase label. Please add one so I know where it’s at.

Thanks,
— bb

[remcohaszing]

parseArgs is great, but it is also experimental.

@pkgjs/parseargs is a nice polyfill.

[wooorm]

nodejs/node#46718

[wooorm]

What does it mean if something is stable on Node 20 but experimental on Node 16/lts and 18/lts? 😅
I guess we can use it then, right?

[remcohaszing]

I guess we can use it then, right?

IMO yes

[ChristianMurphy]

I guess we can use it then, right?

I'd lean Yes as well.