feat: set module: nodenext for node bases >=20

[danielpza]

Closes #279

Set module: nodenext for node bases >= 20 (node20, node21, node22, node23 bases) per typescript 5.8 recommendations

This adds support to require(esm) feature supported in node 22 and more recently node 20

• See https://www.typescriptlang.org/docs/handbook/release-notes/typescript-5-8.html#support-for-require-of-ecmascript-modules-in---module-nodenext
• require(esm) in node20, https://nodejs.org/en/blog/release/v20.19.0/#requireesm-is-now-enabled-by-default

TypeScript 5.8 supports this behavior under the --module nodenext flag. When --module nodenext is enabled, TypeScript will avoid issuing errors on these require() calls to ESM files.

Because this feature may be back-ported to older versions of Node.js, there is currently no stable --module nodeXXXX option that enables this behavior; however, we predict future versions of TypeScript may be able to stabilize the feature under node20. In the meantime, we encourage users of Node.js 22 and newer to use --module nodenext, while library authors and users of older Node.js versions should remain on --module node16 (or make the minor update to --module node18).

[orta]

I agree with the comments in #279 👍🏻