breaking: use parseArgs from Node 18.3+ instead of sade/mri

[aewing]

• Replace sade dependency with Node.js built-in parseArgs from node:util
• Update engines requirement to Node.js >= 18.3.0 (when parseArgs was added)
• Remove sade and @types/sade dependencies
• Implement custom help and version handling to match original behavior
• Add proper TypeScript types for parseArgs options

Resolves #2521

[aewing]

@benmccann @jasonlyu123 let me know if you had something else in mind, happy to address any feedback.

[dummdidumm]

Looks good, but we should only merge this once we cut a new svelte-check release. Putting it into draft mode to prevent accidental merges. Thank you!

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[aewing]

@dummdidumm any thoughts on this one now? worth keeping/merging, or any rework or reconsideration you'd like here?