switch live hovers in Eclipse to direct-connect after launch

[martinlippert]

We should switch the approach the tooling auto-connects to running applications to show live hovers from the auto-detect java processes running on the local machine to a direct "connect to this app" call from the tooling in Eclipse once a spring boot app has been launched (similar to the way we do this in VSCode nowadays) and disable the automatic tracking of processes by default.

[BoykoAlex]

Hopefully addressed with c51b97a
Auto-connects to boot apps launched via Spring Boot launch with JMX enabled, i.e. default launch settings. There is also a preference for auto-connect under Boot Dash preferences.