Upgrade to Spring Kafka 4.0.0-M5

[wilkinsona]

Upgrade to Spring Kafka 4.0.0-M5.

[snicoll]

Moving to snapshot will not be smooth due to Spring Kafka moving away from Spring Retry. See #46309 and a WIP commit that should help: snicoll@120d110

The PR hasn't been merged yet but it should happen soon, see spring-projects/spring-kafka#4059

[jagadeesh9892]

Updated to Spring Kafka 4.0.0-M5, fixed auto-configuration adjustments after Spring Retry removal, and verified all Kafka-related tests pass.