feat: use 1.13.0 from Kitware fork

[henryiii]

Ran nox -s bump -- --upstream-repository Kitware/ninja.

The Kitware fork adds the following feature compared to upstream:

• make-4.3-jobserver-1: Based on this release, which includes pipe-based jobserver support for Make 4.3 and was conveniently created by the same developer who upstreamed jobserver support

[jcfr]

Interesting, this includes a new feature branch, msvc-depfile. We will loose this new addition upgrading to 1.13.0.

I just shared feedback with the CMake team explaining the situation.

In a nutshell, I mentioned it would be ideal to update the Kitware fork based of version 1.13 while also integrating the following features:

• make-4.3-jobserver-1: Based on this release, which includes pipe-based jobserver support for Make 4.3 and was conveniently created by the same developer who upstreamed jobserver support
• msvcdepfile-1: Adds Windows-specific support for parsing MSVC dependency files. See PR #2600

I will follow-up once we discussed it and settle on a path forward.

[mayeut]

The PR for msvcdepfile-1 has been closed for now and is not in the new 1.13.0 tag in Kitware fork.
I guess we should go with 1.13.0 and make-4.3-jobserver-1 only from the Kitware fork ?

[jcfr]

Ditto. Here is what we discussed with @bradking

I'm actually inclined to drop that from our fork [...] but the motivating use case was addressed another way, and the corresponding changes to cmake were never merged. After discussion in https://github.com/ninja-build/ninja/issues/1806#issuecomment-2971607874 on the upstream Ninja side [...] it is unlikely they will ever accept the feature.

Switching to the updated Kitware fork with the backported classic job server is then a sensible path forward.

[mayeut]

The test failing on Windows seems to be coming from the jobserver patch in Kitware fork which does not make the test expected result depend on the platform: Kitware/ninja@8879a03#diff-4a3129d062b73d6f6436e3d4e5e3f41bbb848ef49cce54309fe6a00b6f93d132

c.f. Kitware/ninja#3