Port #[rustc_autodiff] to the attribute parser infrastructure

[JonathanBrouwer]

For #131229

r? @jdonszelmann
cc @ZuseZ4

autodiff_forward and autodiff_reverse can be ported in a seperate PR, but these are expanded in the AST and don't exist anymore in the HIR so this is a bit more of a challenge.

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