[0.74,0.73,0.72] Fix possible deadlock in dispatchViewUpdates

### Target Branch(es)

0.72, 0.73, 0.74

### Link to commit or PR to be picked

https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/43643

### Description

Fixes slow screen opening in apps (running on Android) using react-native-safe-area-context:

* https://github.com/th3rdwave/react-native-safe-area-context/issues/448