[core] use usage_reporter for worker crash count in telemetry

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What happened + What you expected to happen

use usage reporter in #30520 to report worker crash

Versions / Dependencies

master

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improve on #30472

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Should also address unique_ptr and shared_ptr issue for kv_store

cc @iycheng