Expand CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURE to support `RAPIDS` ( equal to `ALL` )(

[robertmaynard]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
CMake 3.23+ now offers support for all and all-major as special keywords to CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES. This means that rapids-cmake overload on ALL now creates confusion and breaks expectations ( trxcllnt/rapids-compose#84 https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/cmake/-/issues/23739, #104 )

Describe the solution you'd like
What we should do is offer a new magic value named RAPIDS which will be the defacto way to build for the subset of CUDA architectures that RAPIDS projects need to support ( a subset of all-major ).