Update UCX pinnings (to support 1.17.0)

[pentschev]

To update UCX we must change various different repositories. I hope this issue will be useful for future reference, here are the places we must update:

1. UCX-Py: dependencies.yaml and conda/recipes/ucx-py/meta.yaml. See Increase maximum UCX runtime pin ucx-py#1051 for example;
2. UCXX: dependencies.yaml and conda/recipes/ucxx/meta.yaml. See Increase maximum UCX runtime pin ucxx#240 for example;
3. Integration: conda/recipes/versions.yaml. See Increase maximum UCX runtime pin to <1.18.0 integration#712 for example.
4. ucx-wheels: update VERSION. See publish v1.17.0 ucx-wheels#10 for example.
5. devcontainers: default version in matrix.yaml, available versions in ucx feature in features/src/ucx/devcontainer-feature.json and the respective feature version in the same file. See add UCX 1.17.0 support devcontainers#338 for example.

• and then updating base images used in devcontainers builds for libraries that use UCX

Notice that we have two different pinnings:

1. depends_on_ucx_build: this refers what UCX version should be used to build and must be equal the minimum version we support, for example ucx==1.15.0 means we build against version 1.15.0 and that's the minimum required version at runtime;
2. depends_on_ucx_run: this refers what UCX versions we support running, the minimum version should match at least what's defined in depends_on_ucx_build and has no theoretical upper limit, as API/ABI should be compatible, for example ucx>=1.15.0,<1.18.

[jameslamb]

and then updating base images used in devcontainers builds for libraries that use UCX

Put up PRs here:

• Update pip devcontainers to UCX v1.17.0 cuvs#262
• Fix ucx-py version, use UCX 1.17.0 in pip devcontainers cugraph#4562
  • needed to include this change along with others to unblock CI there
• Update pip devcontainers to UCX v1.17.0 raft#2401
• https://github.com/rapidsai/cugraph-ops/pull/680

cuml had already been updated:

• nest cuml one level deeper in python cuml#5944