Ra v2.13.3 (backport #11765) (backport #11768)

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This contains a fix in the ra_directory module to ensure names can be deleted even when a Ra server has never been started during the current node lifetime.

Also contains a small tweak to ensure the ra_directory:unregister_name is called before deleting a Ra data directory which is less likely to cause a corrupt state that will stop a Ra system from starting.

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #11765 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #11768 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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	modified:   deps/rabbit/src/rabbit_quorum_queue.erl

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	both modified:   rabbitmq-components.mk

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