feat: Add strict param to eager/lazy frame "rename"

[alexander-beedie]

Closes #18954.

Useful; brings the same strict parameter behaviour already found in "drop" to "rename". Default behaviour remains unchanged (eg: strict=True).

Example

import polars as pl

df = pl.DataFrame({
    "siteid": ["xx", "yy", "zz"],
    "value1": [5, 4, 6],
    "value2": [7, 3, 3],
})

When strict=True (default) it is an error to reference a column that is not present.

df.rename({"siteid":"id", "other":"misc"})
# ColumnNotFoundError: 'rename' on column: 'other' is invalid

When strict=False (opt-in) the same rename will succeed for columns that are present, and ignore those that aren't.

df.rename({"siteid":"id", "other":"misc"}, strict=False)
# shape: (3, 3)
# ┌─────┬────────┬────────┐
# │ id  ┆ value1 ┆ value2 │
# │ --- ┆ ---    ┆ ---    │
# │ str ┆ i64    ┆ i64    │
# ╞═════╪════════╪════════╡
# │ xx  ┆ 5      ┆ 7      │
# │ yy  ┆ 4      ┆ 3      │
# │ zz  ┆ 6      ┆ 3      │
# └─────┴────────┴────────┘

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