*: support memTracker.detach for HashJoin, Apply and IndexLookUp in Close func (#54095)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #54095

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Issue Number: close #54005

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
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Fixed the issue of abnormally high memory usage caused by memTracker not being detached in HashJoin and IndexLookUp operators when used as the inner side of the Apply operator.

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• 2024-07-11 05:49:01.247457259 +0000 UTC m=+509438.482691357: ☑️ agreed by zanmato1984.
• 2024-07-11 06:21:04.400215943 +0000 UTC m=+511361.635450055: ☑️ agreed by wshwsh12.

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