planner: do not convert update to point get if the expr has sub-query (#47454)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #47454

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #47445

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

• do not convert update to point get if the expr has sub-query
  • covered the case expr
  • covered the parentheses case expr
  • covered the parentheses sub-query expr
  • covered the sub-query expr (do we really need this? I copied the code from the old code)

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test
• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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Fixed TiDB incorrectly converts update statement to point get plan issue

[fixdb]

Can you fix the conflict? we need this go to 6.5

[codecov]

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Timeline:

• 2023-10-31 05:35:47.219634329 +0000 UTC m=+2931344.806744459: ☑️ agreed by hi-rustin.
• 2023-10-31 09:20:57.98880973 +0000 UTC m=+2944855.575919875: ☑️ agreed by hawkingrei.