executor: lock duplicated keys on insert-ignore & replace-nothing (#42210)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #42210

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #42121

Problem Summary: When doing insert-ingore or replace without changes, tidb doesn't lock conflict keys properly.

What is changed and how it works?

Lock keys even when insert-ingnore meets duplicated rows or replace without changes.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

The change may introduce more lock records, which may further lead performance regression like #25659 .

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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