lightning: check hasDupe and tableID when resolve duplicate rows (#40696)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #40696

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #40657

Problem Summary:

ResolveDuplicateRows may accidentally delete imported data even if there is no duplicate data is detected. See #40657 (comment).

What is changed and how it works?

Add two checks when deleting duplicate data:

1. Skip ResolveDuplicateRows when no duplicate data is detected.
2. Check table id if before deleting duplicate data.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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[sleepymole]

/hold

[sleepymole]

This cherry-pick must be merged with #41487.

[sleepymole]

/merge

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This pull request has been accepted and is ready to merge.

Commit hash: 06392da

[sleepymole]

/unhold

[sleepymole]

/retest