[KYUUBI apache#4623][K8S] KubernetesApplicationOperation uses Informe…

…r instead of list

Close apache#4623

To reduce the pressure on the Api Server (which use the kubernetes client polls with label to find the `spark driver pod` when multiple Rest Application are running at the same time), use informer, the kubernetes-recommended method of maintaining the application state.

- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible

- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate

- [ ] [Run test](https://kyuubi.readthedocs.io/en/master/develop_tools/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request
- [x] Run CI

Closes apache#4625 from zwangsheng/KYUUBI_4623.

Closes apache#4623

a415bef [Cheng Pan] nit
136d0db [Cheng Pan] 171
b5d3c23 [Cheng Pan] re-generate conf
bf14ad8 [Cheng Pan] nit
9ee7e04 [Cheng Pan] nit
301162e [Cheng Pan] nit
1d42692 [Cheng Pan] nit
b95d7a6 [Cheng Pan] improve
cc8d2c7 [zwangsheng] fix comments
d017baf [zwangsheng] Set resycn 0
28f9a70 [zwangsheng] Reorder func & slow get app info
22d9c16 [zwangsheng] fix setting
8e09403 [zwangsheng] fix comments
10965d3 [zwangsheng] Rename fileter function => isSparkEnginePod
b026771 [zwangsheng] rename
78c9fdb [zwangsheng] fix comments
6d31f70 [zwangsheng] Fix IT Test
f43bba2 [zwangsheng] fix
17e4f55 [zwangsheng] debug
be8da79 [zwangsheng] debug
0db45a5 [zwangsheng] retest
a93786a [zwangsheng] Fix style
652ee83 [zwangsheng] Add Setting & Debug
4add7e4 [zwangsheng] improve
1f43412 [zwangsheng] remove unused import
35acd61 [zwangsheng] fix compile
05dfc59 [zwangsheng] [KYUUBI apache#4623][Improvement][K8S] Remove cached app info when out of time
4ab530e [zwangsheng] [KYUUBI apache#4623][Improvement][K8S] kubernetesApplicationOperation Using Informer instead of list

Lead-authored-by: zwangsheng <2213335496@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>