test(napi/parser): fix and clarify exclude tests logic

[overlookmotel]

Fix a bug in Vitest config for napi/parser package. When providing exclude property, should extend the default to prevent Vitest searching node_modules for test files (docs).

Also refactor to clarify the logic of which tests are skipped depending on different env vars.

[overlookmotel]

• test(napi/parser): fix and clarify exclude tests logic #14409 👈 (View in Graphite)
• feat(ci): run napi tests on windows #14383 : 1 other dependent PR (#14393 )
• fix(oxlint): normalize path separators in snapshot tests #14406
• test(oxlint): update .gitattributes to force lf line endings #14404
• main

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