fix(runtime): emit node:net connect error event vs throw

[paperdave]

What does this PR do?

does not fully fix pm2 but it doesnt error on startup anymore

• Documentation or TypeScript types (it's okay to leave the rest blank in this case)
• Code changes

How did you verify your code works?

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❌ @paperdave 3 files with test failures on bun-darwin-aarch64:

• test/bundler/bundler_minify.test.ts
• test/js/bun/test/test-test.test.ts
• test/js/node/watch/fs.watch.test.ts

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[github-actions]

✅ test failures on linux-x64 have been resolved.

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[github-actions]

❌ @paperdave 1 files with test failures on linux-x64-baseline:

• test/js/web/fetch/fetch-gzip.test.ts

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^{#70d44647ab00d3d8459ff3412d9c54839090db9d}

[github-actions]

❌ @paperdave 5 files with test failures on bun-darwin-x64-baseline:

• test/js/bun/spawn/spawn.test.ts
• test/js/bun/sqlite/sqlite.test.js
• test/js/node/fs/fs.test.ts
• test/js/third_party/webpack/webpack.test.ts
• test/js/web/timers/setTimeout.test.js

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