[FEATURE] Calcite Remote IT refactoring

[qianheng-aws]

Is your feature request related to a problem?
The current Calcite remote IT has drawbacks:

1. Although enabling fallback by default, Calcite*IT will run most tests without fallback in fact, it has duplication process with NonFallbackCalcite*IT which extends from it. This will increase our IT time cost a lot with unnecessary tests.
2. For some tests we originally expect them throw exception(because of incorrect PPL), we don't want to test with fallback to v2 because v2 will throw exception as well. E.g. WhereCommandIT::testInWithIncompatibleType. Testing the error message in separate suite(calcite enable/disable) is enough.

What solution would you like?
Unify Calcite*IT with NonFallbackCalcite*IT together, and override tests with fallback for those we've previous ignored in NonFallbackCalcite*IT