deps updates

[wraithgar]

This just has prod deps, and some new duplication because a few things like proc-log haven't propagated to all the packages yet

• deps: @npmcli/map-workspaces@5.0.1
• deps: @npmcli/metavuln-calculator@9.0.3
• deps: @npmcli/run-script@10.0.2
• deps: exponential-backoff@3.1.3
• deps: minimatch@10.1.1
• deps: node-gyp@11.5.0
• deps: npm-packlist@10.0.3
• deps: npm-pick-manifest@11.0.3
• deps: npm-profile@12.0.1
• deps: npm-registry-fetch@19.1.0
• deps: tar@7.5.2
• deps: @npmcli/node-gyp@5.0.0
• deps: npm-install-checks@8.0.0
• deps: nopt@9.0.0
• deps: abbrev@4.0.0
• deps: @npmcli/name-from-folder@4.0.0
• deps: parse-conflict-json@5.0.1
• deps: json-parse-even-better-errors@5.0.0
• deps: @npmcli/package-json@7.0.2