Make proxy update cache with NotShardLeader status code

[XuanYang-cn]

See also: #16926

Signed-off-by: yangxuan xuan.yang@zilliz.com

/kind improvement

[congqixia]

/lgtm

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rerun macos check

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[congqixia]

/lgtm