Improve type hinting of RawHeaders

to detect the problem that #14301 fixed.

synapse/app/generic_worker.py

@@ -178,14 +178,14 @@ async def on_POST(
             # Proxy headers from the original request, such as the auth headers
             # (in case the access token is there) and the original IP /
             # User-Agent of the request.
-            headers = {
-                header: request.requestHeaders.getRawHeaders(header, [])
+            headers: Dict[bytes, List[bytes]] = {
+                header: list(request.requestHeaders.getRawHeaders(header, []))
                 for header in (b"Authorization", b"User-Agent")
             }
             # Add the previous hop to the X-Forwarded-For header.
-            x_forwarded_for = request.requestHeaders.getRawHeaders(
+            x_forwarded_for = list(request.requestHeaders.getRawHeaders(
                 b"X-Forwarded-For", []
-            )
+            ))
             # we use request.client here, since we want the previous hop, not the
             # original client (as returned by request.getClientAddress()).
             if isinstance(request.client, (address.IPv4Address, address.IPv6Address)):

synapse/http/client.py

@@ -90,14 +90,29 @@
     "synapse_http_client_responses", "", ["method", "code"]
 )
 
-# the type of the headers list, to be passed to the t.w.h.Headers.
-# Actually we can mix str and bytes keys, but Mapping treats 'key' as invariant so
-# we simplify.
+# the type of the headers map, to be passed to the t.w.h.Headers.
+#
+# The actual type accepted by Twisted is
+#   Mapping[Union[str, bytes], Sequence[Union[str, bytes]] ,
+# allowing us to mix and match str and bytes freely. However: any str is also a
+# Sequence[str]; passing a header string value which is a
+# standalone str is interpreted as a sequence of 1-codepoint strings. This is a disastrous footgun.
+# We use a narrower value type (RawHeaderValue) to avoid this footgun.
+#
+# We also simplify the keys to be either all str or all bytes. This helps because
+# Dict[K, V] is invariant in K (and indeed V).
 RawHeaders = Union[Mapping[str, "RawHeaderValue"], Mapping[bytes, "RawHeaderValue"]]
 
 # the value actually has to be a List, but List is invariant so we can't specify that
 # the entries can either be Lists or bytes.
-RawHeaderValue = Sequence[Union[str, bytes]]
+RawHeaderValue = Union[
+    List[str],
+    List[bytes],
+    List[Union[str, bytes]],
+    Tuple[str, ...],
+    Tuple[bytes, ...],
+    Tuple[Union[str, bytes], ...],
+]
 
 
 def check_against_blacklist(