[Enhancement] Update `incar_parameters.json` file under `io.vasp`

[DanielYang59]

Post from #4020 (comment), there are quite some INCAR tags missing from incar_parameters.json (the type recording file), perhaps we should update it.

We also want to make this json file more permissive, i.e. don't remove those tags absent (deprecated) from VASP wiki.