[2.13] Backport recent bugfixes and mainly docker-cli issue

[floryut]

What type of PR is this?
/kind bug

What this PR does / why we need it:
Backport docker-cli fixes to allow upgrade jobs in master branch.
Disable upgrade jobs with 2.12

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:
None

Special notes for your reviewer:
Fixes backported

• Reorder test (required, allow merge in ci)
• Ubuntu skip in molecule (required, CI jobs failing if not)
• Kubernetes-dashboard template error (optional, "critical" dashboard bug)
• Disable ovh CI (required, OVH key/sub is no longer valid)
• Kubernetes-dashboard template missing (optional)
• Api server not using variable (optional, "critical" bug)
• docker-cli (required, this is the needed one ^^)

And remove auto run of upgrade jobs, as 2.12 as the docker-cli issue also

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?:

Backport #6066
Backport #6107 
Backport #6136 
Fix docker-cli issue

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