check functor arguments to parallel_X functions

[calewis]

Need to detect that the functor passed into to parallel_X function is valid, i.e. the operator called either has KOKKOS_INLINE_FUNCTION or is a KOKKOS_LAMBDA

[calewis]

So this appears to work when invoked via clang-tidy, but doesn't work when invoked via clang-tidy via clangd. I need to figure out why.