Add note about special tokens in chat templates for LoRA SFT

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What does this PR do?

Sets best practice to avoid the footgun associated with special tokens in chat templates and LoRA SFT: https://x.com/_lewtun/status/1840804557800292843

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[kashif]

@lewtun would we need the same warning in the other trainers?