增加配置项控制是否获取dml真实影响行数

[nick2wang]

增加配置项REAL_ROW_COUNT，控制是否获取dml真实影响行数，从历史issues来看应该有不少人需要用到

1. mysql是通过goinception的real_row_count调用选项实现（https://hanchuanchuan.github.io/goInception/params.html）
2. mongo我之前提交的pr(mongo engine优化 #2018)里默认开启，现在改为配置项开关控制是否启用

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Attention: 10 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Comparison is base (22e37cd) 76.83% compared to head (bd32df1) 76.97%.

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[LeoQuote]

其实goinception 开启更方便一些，要不写个文档算了

[nick2wang]

其实goinception 开启更方便一些，要不写个文档算了

我之前的表述有误，real_row_count属于goinception的调用选项并非参数，只能在调用时指定，无法预设默认开启，对于archery用户来说要使用只能自己去改代码

[LeoQuote]

原来如此, 那补一下单元测试这个就可以merge 了