fix: peer resolutions, limit example workspaces

[acao]

this provides more targeted peer resolutions, based on known compatibility. graphql@14.5.0 is when built-in graphql types are required. the last 14.4.x release before that also added a new method that we use.

this also limits the scope of the workspaces to monaco, so that both start commands work, and the yarn lockfile can shrink in size and duplicate resolution complexity because of create-react-app/etc in other examples

prompts for review:

1. should we add || experimental-defer-stream?
2. does not adding it create peer resolution problems for consumers? webpack example should be representative of that?
3. there is a project called manypkg that has a fix command that will normalize the dependency versions of all the workspaces, preventing issues with clashing versions. it will resolve to the highest version, and has a rule to automatically add the peer dependencies as a devDependency. we can include another commit to this PR with this fix, which would require some type fixes in language server because of babel versions in findGraphQLTags . this could also be another PR, but naturally makes sense as the next step after this PR

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[imolorhe]

Welcome back 🙂

[acao]

thanks @imolorhe !! excited to be back! I'll be contributing more some evenings this week and weekend. I really really appreciate your co-maintainership during my hiatus!

[simkessy]

This is breaking builds

[jay-deshmukh]

Temporary Solution

adding

"resolutions": {
    "graphql-language-service-parser": "1.9.0",
    "graphql-language-service-interface": "2.8.2"
  }
  

to package.json fixed the build errors for me