fix: plumb soft_deleted option for grpc GetObject

[ddelgrosso1]

Fixes #<issue_number_goes_here>

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• Tests pass
• Appropriate changes to README are included in PR

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All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 98.74%. Comparing base (61bce3c) to head (d58ddc5).
Report is 43 commits behind head on main.

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+ Hits         8381     8643     +262     
+ Misses        111      110       -1     

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