fix(datastore): Ignore field mismatch errors

[bhshkh]

ErrFieldMismatch is returned when a field is to be loaded into a different type than the one it was stored from, or when a field is missing or unexported in the destination struct.

This PR allows user to suppress such errors. Some scenarios in which this would be useful are listed in #913

Points to note

1. Suppressing the error does not mean that Datastore will not fetch missing field. It just means that the field was still fetched from Datastore service but not loaded in user's struct.
2. When writing the data back to Datastore, it will be overwritten. E.g.
   If entity written to Datastore is {X: 1, Y:2} and it is loaded into type NewStruct struct{X int}, then {X:1} is returned to the user. Now, if user modifies this X = 5 and writes it back to Datastore, there will be no Y field left for this entity in Datastore.

Fixes: #913

[codyoss]

Consider expressing this as a client specific ClientIOption. Here is an example from storage:

google-cloud-go/storage/option.go

Lines 63 to 75 in 532a37c

	func WithXMLReads() option.ClientOption {
	return &withReadAPI{useJSON: false}
	}
	type withReadAPI struct {
	internaloption.EmbeddableAdapter
	useJSON bool
	}
	func (w *withReadAPI) ApplyStorageOpt(c *storageConfig) {
	c.useJSONforReads = w.useJSON
	c.readAPIWasSet = true
	}

[bhshkh]

Updated the PR

[gkevinzheng]

nit: Is it better to call this type/field IgnoreFieldMismatch without the "with"?

[bhshkh]

General naming convention for options is WIthXXXX
Some examples
https://github.com/googleapis/google-cloud-go/blob/main/vertexai/genai/option.go#L22-L26

https://github.com/googleapis/google-cloud-go/blob/main/storage/transfermanager/option.go#L27-L62

[codyoss]

@bhshkh do we still want this PR?

[bhshkh]

@bhshkh do we still want this PR?

Yes