fix: [OS-634] make sure NSO dismantles happen before builds / redeploys

[haniotak]

Description

small change in the NSO southbound queuer to make sure any DISMANTLEs happen before BUILDs and REDEPLOYs.

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[zrecore]

Any chance we can have some testing to assert the correct tasks are added, and that the tasks are in the expected order?

[zrecore]

Good work!