[APM] Migrate Kibana plugins (that depend on APM) to TS project references

[smith]

Like #80508, but for APM-specific plugins and their transitive dependencies.

Implementation instructions.

This list is based on looking at APM's optional and required plugins in its kibana.json and manually walking the transitive dependencies. Other dependencies may also exist and can be added here when found.

It is not complete at this time.

plugin	migration status
apm_oss (#87676)	✅
apm	🔴
features	✅
licensing	✅
triggers_actions_ui	✅
embeddable	✅
infra (circular dependency here) (#80995)	✅
cloud	✅
usage_collection	✅
task_manager	✅
actions	✅
observability (#89320)	✅
security	✅
ml (#89270)	✅
home	✅
maps (#82194)	✅
url_forwarding (#81177)	✅
data	✅
home	✅
security_oss (#82135)	✅
inspector (#81792)	✅
share (#82051)	✅
kibana_legacy (#80992)	✅
kibana_react	✅
kibana_utils	✅

[elasticmachine]

Pinging @elastic/apm-ui (Team:apm)

[smith]

data plugin and others have now been updated in #87294 so we can make some more progress on this now.