With a single server hostname that has one A and one AAAA resource record, eggdrop 1.8.2rc2 will only ever attempt to connect to one type of address. If this times out (no response to SYN packets) then it does not retry over the other address family.
The DNS resolution code only prefers IPv4 or IPv6. It also looks like it behaves differently depending on the order of the A and AAAA responses.