[wasm][coreclr] decouple argiterator and calling convention from the interpreter

[radekdoulik]

context: #120665 (comment)

currently we use the same layout for the arguments as on the interpreter stack, to be able to just copy chunk of memory when calling the interpreter from native code.

with the native codegen we should rethink that

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