Upgrade Microsoft.CodeAnalysis.* package versions to 4.13.0

[AndriySvyryd]

• Update TFM to net10.0
• Remove TFM override for tests
• Remove the dependency pinned in [release/9.0] Nominally upgrade Microsoft.Build.Framework to 17.8.3 #34636

[roji]

See dotnet/roslyn-sdk#1175 (comment) for upgrading Microsoft.CodeAnalysis.Testing.