Further typing tightening/modernization

[athornton]

Consolidating everything into pyproject.toml and making checks stricter.

Not much functional difference, but I'll explain what's going on:

1. When we move to Ruff it's going to complain about Optional[type] since it prefers type|None, and I'm getting ahead of that.
2. to do dynamic versioning requires git in the runtime container, so I added it.
3. moved requirements to a subdirectory to reduce visual clutter for me.
4. I don't know if the old PreAuthorizingTransferAdapter would have behaved correctly if you'd instantiated multiple subclasses, but there was a lot of shadowing going on at the very least with the handler being a class variable, so I made it also an instance variable and called super().init() from its subclasses. Because it inherits from ABC I probably don't need the @AbstractMethod decorator I have; the point is PreAuthorizingTransferAdapter should never be instantiated on its own, only as a superclass of the transfer adapter you are actually using.
5. Scope was initializing its fields as both class and instance variables; removed the class variables.
6. Removed release target from Makefile; for now I can build and push new containers manually, and eventually we will manage that from GitHub, and PyPi and Docker builds will be and stay in sync, release versions driven from Git tags.

[rufuspollock]

LGTM.