add keepalives to public api grpc server

[famarting]

Description

Adds keepalive params to the public API grpc server, this should be now specially useful since grpc streams are used more and more (workflows and subscriptions)

NOTE: I just copied the values set in the internal server, all values are up for debate, we need find some sane defaults

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[cicoyle]

lgtm